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Wednesday, 7 August 2013

Can Your Friend Come Play As Well?

I was thinking about the various fantasies that women have the other day and which ones are common to both men and women. I don't know about all you ladies out there but have you seen the look on a man's face when you mention the term "Threesome". It almost looks like their brains go into overdrive mode.

I must admit I don't really have much experience in this field but it is definitely one of my top 5 fantasies. Turning your fantasy into reality could be a little complicated though. I am not quite sure how one bring's up the possibility of a threesome with your significant other - do you just casually say "Can Your Friend Come Play As Well?"

Now I know most guys would probably be interested in the female / female / male (FFM) version of a threesome. The guys I have spoken to about threesome's have all pulled their faces up at the thought of the male / male / female (MMF) version. Apparently the thought of 2 naked guys touching creeps them out - especially when their "junk" is involved.

For me personally - I am not fussy. I am more than happy to fantasize about either.
Imagine being seduced by 2 guys at once. Men are naturally competitive - and just think about them both bringing their A game and competing to see who can give you the most pleasure. I must admit I could easy succumb to the thought of a MMF threesome with a number of guys I know.

Although I have often imagined a FFM threesome, I have no girl on girl experience. But that is not to say the thought has not crossed my mind (okay - maybe I have said too much here).

Anyway...... Just picturing this scenario - do I choose a close girlfriend and then the two of us pick a guy to partake? Or do me and my guy pick a girl we both like? And how do we go about picking said girl? I would not be able to pick anyone I know - certainly don't want any of my friends coming anywhere near my guy. I would not approve of any of the girls he knows either - would make me extremely jealous of what would / could possibly result down the line with them or what has transpired between them in the past. So that leaves a stranger. Where do you find a girl willing to partake who doesn't know either of you? Do you ask around and go on word of mouth from other's or do you start looking in the back page of the newspaper in the XXX column? (And let's not forget she has to be less attractive than I am.)

I managed to find some threesome tips and etiquette:

Make each other feel comfortable (Set the mood and be accommodating)
Let the women initiate the first step
Make sure transitions between each other flow
Don't favor one over the other
Take turns
Don't constantly try to please both at the same time (There is another person to help)
Masturbate if you feel like it
Don't force women (or guys) to do anything with each other
Be into everything they suggest
Respect each other's boundaries
End it smoothly (Don't act weird)
and most importantly - USE PROTECTION!

How about sharing some of your tips and experiences here if you have any!

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Thursday, 1 August 2013

Polyamory (Lanthie's Compendium #8)

I was watching the latest episode of The Glades earlier today which featured "Polyamory". Seeing as though the President of my Country (South Africa) practices Polyamory and is widely criticized for it, I thought I would do some research with an open mind and expand on it.

Polyamory is an" alternative relationship" commonly referred to as an open marriage, non-monogamy, and polygamy. Each of these structures is different, but they all share the concept of being romantically linked with more than one person at the same time.

It is not the threesome scenario you guys are all picturing right now - yeah - that hot brunette giving the blond with big tits oral while you make yourself useful is not quite the same thing. (I was going to include a pic representing this image but thought Matt would not be too impressed with me if I did - so you will have to form your own mental image!)

This is an actual intimate long term relationship with more than one person at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. It depends on the agreements reached between all parties as to who sleeps with who and when.

A relationship among three people is often called a triad or threesome;
among four people a quad or foursome.
Sometimes groupings of three or more are called moresomes.

In triads or threesomes, the relationships may be characterized as forming a triangle or a "V". i.e Picture a triangle with the points being refereed to as A (male), B (female) and C (male). B would typically be the hinge or pivot of the relationship. B has a sexual relationship with A and C, but never with them together. So they may agree that A and C get alternate days with B. Or their agreement may be one where A and C share B at the same time.

Other letters to describe the different scenario's are "N" or "U" for a foursome, or "W" for a fivesome ("Z" and "M" are equivalents to "N" and "W").

I am sure there are many pro's and con's to this lifestyle. What are your thoughts?

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